The Official "Does EXO is Gay?" Thread

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  1. CyLu

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    this thread made me laugh so much i love you all fam tnx

    but tbh if living with 9 (well it used to be 12) handsome men doesn't make you question your sexualiy then idk anymore /wtfsehun

    i mean i wouldn't be surprised if one of them comes out
    lmao who am i kidding i'll probably be screaming like a demented pterodactyl bc of joy
     
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    triggered by this thread
     
  3. FerdinandA

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    Honestly speaking, I just think some of them were curious and maybe experimented. As for being queer; bi or gay or pan or demi or ace, I just don't really think any of them are (or I keep telling myself this lol). I mean some of them sometimes really give me big vibes, like "holy shit there is no way you aren't at least hetero-romantic bisexual booooi"

    But remember that despite the whole "fan service" business in idoldom, Koreans ARE more touchy feely and chummy when it comes to same sex friendships. So what we think "looks gay" is mostly our western perspective in attributing "orientation" to gender norms and behaviour. Korean men DO take care of themselves more, they are NOT as constrained in "don't talk about your feelings" like westerners (particularly americans and western-europeans) are. They ARE more affectionate with their guy friends.

    So many of these interactions we see them in, if they are not doing it exactly for the sake of fan service, I don't think they are doing it because "they are letting their gay out".

    On the contrary, we would have to use different methods to guess at their sexuality. In a country as closeted as Korea, we would have to look for the guys that act suspiciously LESS gay, because those are the ones trying to hide it.

    I'm just trying to be realistic here, but it's way more telling to spot homophobic guys in ALL groups than the ones that might be gay.

    I mean just on the top of my head I can't decide if Yixing is super ghei and trying to hide it or super homophobic.
     
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    Their sexuality really doesn't matter to me, since it's their business and not mine, but isn't skinship in Asia a cultural phenomenon that western countries several lack, so close male friendship looks "gay?"

    Platonic male affection is pretty much dead in the US. If you look at the pictures in this article, you get a similar feeling to a lot of the goofy stuff Exo does with each other. I know I do a lot of affectionate stuff with my friends, too, but we're girls, so no one bats an eye.

    That said, it's not my place to speculate on their sexuality. Nor care, since they're people who make autonomous choices. FWIW, I'm against ships of irl people, yaaaa...
     
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    I feel like you've just written what was on my mind, word for word.
    Thank you.
     
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    Just here to say I can personally vouch for this /laytea
     
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    Darling what beautiful articles you just linked. I think this will help to further understand why Korean same sex friendships are how they are now. Even after opening themselves up to the world thirty years ago, these emotional cues and behaviours still exist, I just hope they don't get too contaminated by the West and males start drifting apart. Everyone has a right to have a fulfilling close friendship with whomever they want,
     
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    Well based on my extensive research through AsianFanfics, LiveJournal, & AO3 on top of vast and obvious observations, I will conclude that yes, EXO does gay.

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    I think 1 of every 10 or so are gay so yes, probably there are some gay members.
     
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    I sound delulu but Baekhyun just seems... Not straight lol
     
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    I mean EXO is a pretty huge group so there's that possibility.
     
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    Statistics say at least 1 of the boys is gay /laytea
     
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    Nah they're as straight as my curly locks/dyonachos
     
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    i feel you /sekaihug <- am glad mods made this mini gif. my sekai heart can rest well
     
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    You like SeKai, a slei /happyxiu/sekaihug
     
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    Wrong, i lobe them with all my heart and soul. My little princes have owned this arse since run and gun teaser. /sekaihug/kaikiss
    I love 2016 since sekai has sailed to moon this year.
    I am the proud mum.
    Welp am starting to write an essay.
    *i lowkey believe the mods ship sekai* /chanyeollip
     
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    I love SeKai more than I love my life /baekcri
    Tbh everyone should ship SeKai so/baekfab
     
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    Not to be that person, but chansoo serenaded to love yourself. sorry not sorry but i am listening to their cover rn. Chen Jam

    Yes, sekai means world yes. So everybody on earth should ship this princes!/xiuxiu
     
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    If they are not gonna marry me than they are gonna marry eachother simple as it is/laytea
     
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    Yes Yes Yes Yes
     

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